if that's not friendship, i don't know what to call it. andrew is breaking this promise right from the very beginning of the series due to his obvious friendship with renee.Īndrew would deny and say they aren't friends but it's very obvious they are, i mean there's literally a scene where they talk about getting brunch together. no nothing' (if i remember correctly- something along those lines lol). we all know about his promise to aaron (there was a part of the ec which said it exactly but i tried searching for it and honestly the ec is too big :/ it's annoying to try and find)Īnyway, aaron and andrew made a promise that they would 'stick together' and have 'no girlfriends. Okay so, firstly, andrew doesn't actually stick to his promises as much as he would have you believe. So when Kevin stans, Aaron stans, Renee and Allison stans talk about that, why do Andreil stans feel like calling us out? There should be room in the fandom for all voices. Andreil is favourised, comes to the centre, and while that's fine, it also takes away from all the other characters that were side tracked because Nora suddenly decided to make the focus of the books the gay couple, even as she started so many plot lines and subplots she didn't complete because of that. This kind of message is what has divided the fandom in a new kind of conflict. So why would he break his promise to Kevin to protect him? For something that wasn't really his fault? We are shown that Andrew is a man of his word. For one, it paints Andrew in a different light than the one we saw him up until The Raven King. I'm surprised actually that Andrew stans themselves aren't mad that Nora decided to add this to the story. The way she did it erased key points of all her main characters and their development.Īnd yes, I'm talking about the choking incident. But the problem comes to how Nora decided to establish that. That's something we all do with loved ones and it makes 100% sense. The problem isn't Andrew prioritising Neil. anyway! i love andreil to death <3 and thank you sm for this ask anon!! □Īllow me to add something to this and explain our problem with this: i’ve already wrote too much and it’s barely coherent □ i just spent the entire time being a sap. neil would never ask andrew for something he can’t give.Īlright alright, i NEED to stop myself before i carry on. he’s letting himself be vulnerable for the first time :’) and allowing himself to fall despite being terrified.īesides, neil wants what’s best for andrew, but not what he personally thinks is best, instead he listens to andrew. finally letting himself entertain the idea that maybe he could have something permanent. he chooses neil over aaron and ends up with the chance to fix his relationship with his brother *and* gets to keep neil at the same time.īy andrew choosing neil and ‘putting him above everything else’, he’s also valuing himself. honestly, if what andrew did in the books was putting neil above everything then it seems like that was the best thing ever did. It just means they see each other at someone they can spend the rest of their lives with, trust with anything, get some cats with, someone who understands them more than anyone else- i won’t start lol. i honestly don’t see an issue with neil being the most important person in his life (and vice versa) because this does not mean that they are the only important people in each others lives, or that they don’t value themselves highly either. The thing that makes it Ultra Sexy + Valid is that it’s reciprocated!!! i can’t iimagine looking at a couple that is devoted to each other and fantastic at consent and communication and being like “ugh they need to be less intense about their love :/”. Anon… i am begging you to slide into my dms for this, i need to follow you this instance □
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